LIVERPOOL CITY ~ Lake in the city

                           Holla liverpool FC team

                  Shine bright like a diamond. =P

                                  They got their own 'london-eye'

                                                The Beatles Story

                                          Albert Dock

HYDE PARK, LONDON

                                             

                                               Everlasting  happiness

                                    Luckily she didnt pulled off her knitted cap and shawl =)

                                    My knitted sweater that i bought way back in india

My most favourite kiss

                                     Swan,ducks and pigeons

My kind hearted mak

GATWICK,LONDON,LIVERPOOL and MANCHESTER WITH LOVE

Assalamualaikum and good day to everyone
My next few entries will be all about our vacation to the uk last year ( april 2017).
Unfortunately due to time constraint, we merely visited gatwick,london,manchester and liverpool.
Looking at the bright side, we were grateful to be given this opportunity to travel and witnessed this amazing land and greeneries created by The Merciful and The beneficent Allah swt.  The more you travel,the more you will realize that HE reign supreme in this universe, The Almighty Allah swt. 

If you ask me about coming back to this place, my answer will definitely and absolutely YESSSSS (^.^) I wanted to come back, insyaallah. 

Below are the pictures taken at Diana,Princess of Wales memorial playground at Kensington gardens. Only parents with children were allowed to enter this playground to avoid any unfavourable circumstances.

                                                           Breathtaking view

                                               See-saw with british-born Philiphino

                                          Little julia anxiously observing the other kids

                                             The over excited mother haha

                                                                Why Julia? haha

                                                           Im not yet ready ( ~sigh)

                                                              Daughter-father

                                                               Bitter face haha

                                                     The tomato of our eyes

                                                                     Lots of love

                                         The garden was well-kept and maintained

                                                        glare or gaze?

                                           Im her favourite person haha

                                    She refused to cooperate with me any longer  =P

Too many photos now im confused which one to choose (obviously i'll choose more of my photos =p) .

POSITIVE VIBES AND ENERGY

Sometimes i can feel that our world are full of negativity. Negative thinking will lead to negative attitude and produce pessimistic individual. We need more people with positive energy and positive vibes. People with strong character usually have positive mind. So surround yourselves with those who can lead you to positivity. If you cant, then read all the inspiring stories from successful personalities and please please absorb all the positive aura released by them  ❤❤❤


IM THANKFUL FOR MY STRUGGLE
BECAUSE WITHOUT IT
I WOULDN'T HAVE STUMBLED ACROSS MY STRENGTH 

Life as a wife to a super busy husband. Expectation versus reality.

Assalamuaikum and good day to all.

Recently i was asked by one of my friend who is currently working in the UK, regarding how i actually cope being a wife to a super busy husband. For your information, im working as a doctor in one of the private practise with more flexible time, and my husband currently pursuing master of surgery in one of the local university.

So....is it tough?

Erm, i rather said it is challenging.

So there are a few tips that i think might help for those who are rowing the same boat with me.

1) Understanding

I think this is the core to the everlasting relationship.

It looks easy but trust me most couple separated because of  this issue,especially if both spouse are coming from different field. The most important thing, is to understand your partner, and to love&support what he/she is doing as long as he/she never forsake their loved one.REMEMBER, if they dont call or text you,doesnt mean they forsake you, and im going to elaborate on the second important element which is TRUST.

2) Trust

Very difficult right to put 100% trust when your spouse is working in a mixed environment where charming ladies and gentlemen are scattered everywhere.( Dont laugh - im giggling as well (^.^)

Please bear in mind, that being beautiful doesnt guarantee you a happy and long lasting marriage if it doesnt come with beautiful attitude. Just remember every individual is beautiful in her/his own way . Ive seen beautiful ladies encoutered multiple divorce ( because people always said - untunglah dia bini lawa/or untunglah dia husband handsome). Put your trust on your spouse.Remember your are the next of kin to your spouse and you know ur spouse better than anyone else did. If any prob arises, discuss from heart to heart with your spouse (  im too have weaknesses when it comes to this). This is very crucial in order to ensure that we dont fall asleep while having  this uncontrolled emotional outburst ( i tell u this is very harmful to the relationship). By any mean, try to settle any problem on the same day ( eg:apologize to our partner,admit our mistakes -this is the toughest part) otherwise it will drag all the negativity into the relationship.

3) Being helpful and sincere

Being helpful and sincere sound easy but they aren't. I will give clearer picture by throwing an example.

For instance, if you have 3 children, and you are the only one who managed your children ( fetch them to and from school,send them to kelas agama, teach them homework), are you emotionally and physically drained? can you speak about sincerity during that time? - Question &answer yourselves.

Hence let fullfill our heart with sincerity, we are not helping strangers,we are helping our own family members,to be more exact, our spouse and children.

Our spouse might be super duper busy  juggling with their studies and  the neverending work at the hospital, hence they might expect some peace when they come back home.Hence, lets make our home a heaven on earth, a home that full of loves and happiness. We can still be happy eventhough we are fatigue, we can still be happy eventhough the mind is exhausted, because we choose to be happy, and ignore the negativity, and here i would like to emphasize that we choose to be happy with our beloved families .It is all about choices that we made =) In every difficulty there  must be opportunity...An opportunity that will leads to an endless happiness, insyaallah =)

Welcome back my dearest twin

This one was our old picture taken at shimla india in 2009 ( if im not mistaken)...One of the best memory ever. =)

Recently my beloved twin wani,came back from manchester uk. She came back temporarily before coming back for good in july 2018.She was doing her PHD in manchester university and she made it halfway through, im super proud of youuuuuu, my dear twin,a mom of two clingy children hehe 

I always pray for your success and always pray that you stay focused on the right track. Dont deviate your attention because you almost reach the peak of your challenging journey.My twin is going to leave her eldest son with her husband in malaysia before going back to uk with her youngest daughter ayra,accompanied by one nanny that is going to follow them to uk. Alhamdulillah i managed to find one caretaker who is willing to follow wani to uk to take care for ayra while her mummy doing her thesis writing.Thanks a lot fatin.A hardworking,sincere and kind girl that ive ever meet..You good deed is tremendously appreciated =) 

Julia zahra, the amazing gift from Allah swt

                                               
Meet our adorable daughter, Julia Zahra.
This pic was captured at hever castle,ednbridge,gatwick london in april last year. We really wanted to come back to this countryside.=)